In life, there are postulates that women should not forget about. It will also help girls to draw life experience without stepping on any rake.
10. Appearance matters
We are always greeted by the cover, and in the era of the reign of Instagram, they also love it with their eyes.
A beautiful girl looks not only more attractive to the opposite sex, but even in the eyes of others it seems more healthy. No one cancels the significance of the inner world, but one should not forget about appearance. Still, new acquaintances are drawn to attractive and well-groomed people, beautiful girls are more authoritative and successful.
And if you are the owner of natural beauty, then do not forget to maintain the external virtues with care products, sports and proper nutrition.
9. Alcohol is really bad
The Ministry of Health warns: smoking is poison. And alcohol too.
The worst thing that awaits you from alcohol is dependence, and as scientists have long established: female alcoholism is incurable.
But other consequences of alcohol consumption are not encouraging. Extra pounds are quickly and easily gained from alcohol, as water is retained in the body. In addition, alcohol is a very high-calorie product, and sometimes for an evening get-together with a bottle of red, you consume your daily calorie intake.
The skin deteriorates from alcohol: its elasticity, freshness and healthy color disappear. Alcohol is often the cause of acne.
8. Your future is your problem
Shifting responsibility for their unfulfilled dreams and plans to other people is generally bad form. It has long been necessary to understand and accept that only you are responsible for your life. Neither your husband, nor your boyfriend, nor your parents or good friends.
For everything that you have in life, you are responsible. And if you are satisfied with your life situation at the moment, then say thank you to yourself - this is only your merit. And if you are not satisfied with the situation in which you are now, then start to change something. Because the future depends only on you.
7. The world is changing faster than we think.
The world does not stand still. Even at zero we kept the first black-and-white Panasonic phones, and now every second child has a phone with unlimited Internet access in his pocket.
Technology is evolving, progress is being pushed forward, and you need to keep up with that.
Even life's postulates change, new beliefs appear and old stereotypes are destroyed. You must accept this fact and try to be on the wave of informational changes in order to keep up to date.
6. Youth is not eternal
Do not be afraid of old age, because we all understand that it is inevitable. Isn’t it better to accept the inevitable with a smile on his face and lightness in his soul?
Now you are young, so take full advantage of the delights of a vigorous and strong body. In old age, you will expect a pleasant regularity and a huge baggage of life experience. And remember: there is nothing wrong with the growing number of your years, because you can always stay young in your soul.
5. You need to learn constantly
Vladimir Ilyich bequeathed to us: "Learn, study and study again!"
This belief is worth consolidating in your mind and periodically remembering it, because learning is progress that allows us to improve.
Learn what’s becoming popular to stay informed. Especially learn what you want to succeed in the professional field. New information - a kind of exercise for the brain. With her, the mind remains fresh and inquisitive, even in spite of the years ahead.
4. Marriage is optional
Forget the stereotype that being a lonely girl is embarrassing. It is never a shame to be alone if you are comfortable with yourself. And to get married, because “it’s time” anyway for anyone - the real stupidity and a cross on your happy future.
Cave times have long passed, when people united in families, so that the chances of survival are higher.
The time has passed and the era when a woman could not do anything without a man, as she was deprived of the right to vote, freedom of choice and the opportunity to get an education or work.
Now is the age of freedom and healthy egoism, so do not chase a stamp in your passport unless you consider marriage your vital necessity.
3. We can get tired
If you were resting for the last time in your past life, then it's time to stop and exhale. Stop rushing and keep a list of 100 things to do in 24 hours. And even more so, stop reproaching yourself if you do not have time to complete these things.
The ideal woman you see on the TV screen is just a fictional picture. She does not exist and should not strive for this image to the detriment of her own health and interests.
To tire is normal.
Rest is necessary.
Exhale and take a break, your body will be very grateful to you.
2. The choice is still limited
The modern world is replete with plenty of choice. Any detergent, any brand of chocolate, any educational institution - a thousand and one options for absolutely any aspect of life. This is stupefying and confusing.
Sometimes we can find what we like. But let’s throw it again, if only to look further, because somewhere there is better.
This perverse belief is common to many people these days, so stop it. Sometimes you should not chase the ideal and think that the choice is not limited. Everything has a finale, so stop at what resonates in your soul and stop looking for the ideal.
Otherwise, there is a high probability of being left with nothing.
1. There is always someone better ... and younger
And there is nothing wrong with that. The truth with which it is necessary to come to terms and live quietly on.
No need to compete with the whole world. Moreover, you do not need to hit into self-flagellation due to the fact that you look worse than the actress from the sensational blockbuster. Learn to live with the idea that there is always someone better than you. And someone else is better than someone who is better than you. And this chain is endless.
The only person with whom you can always compare yourself is you from the past. Develop without looking at the "ideal" people, believe me, they also have in their head those "ideal" people whom they do not reach.