Most people strive for success and wealth, but they do not come to everyone. In addition, each of these two concepts is interpreted differently.
In some ways, success is a matter of luck, but for the most part, everything is in the hands of man. Some qualities prevent people from achieving their goals and making money.
Learn about a few of them to correct mistakes and get off the ground.
10. They do not like the rich
When a person dislikes or hates the rich, he automatically elevates them into a separate hostile "look." Such a perception does not allow one to live in abundance and increase it. After all, a man mentally erects a wall between his life and the life of the rich.
9. Think stereotypically
Stereotypes are “rigid” frameworks in which others are offered to think and act to a person from childhood. Stereotypical thinking leads to the same type and predictable behavior, it is a “trodden path”.
Stereotypical people are consumers who are accustomed to living at the ready, and not to achieve something on their own. This behavior manifests itself in interaction with others and in the treatment of money.
But life is unpredictable and complex. To live in such conditions as one wants, one needs flexibility of the mind. Each of his personal feelings determines what success and wealth are for him.
The images of “successful” people imposed by society are a stereotype. That is why there are no “easy ways” to become rich and successful, it is always your way.
8. Do not like to study
And this is not even about a school or institute. Not everyone likes schooling, and that's fine.
Training is the acquisition of new skills, abilities, experience and broadening one's horizons. A person is used to learning new things, not to stand still - this is a need. It either learns and develops, or degrades.
Properly managing and receiving money requires skills. To do this, you need to learn to work, to distinguish personal needs from imposed ones, to think flexibly and logically.
Only in constant study and development will success come to a person, and only in this way will he achieve his goals.
7. Lazy
Do not call laziness "just rest", these are two different things. Rest is a restoration of strength. It takes place, including through the change of activity, for example, from mental to physical.
Laziness is “doing nothing” and wasting time on useless and empty actions. Success and wealth are achieved through hard and focused work. Therefore, laziness and putting off affairs for later are the worst companions.
If you set a goal to achieve wealth, start from the same day, a productive “tomorrow” will never come. To make it easier to cope with laziness, build a work schedule and set small tasks that you can perform today. When you get a taste, there will no longer be a desire to do nothing.
6. Consider the rich special
It seems to some people that the rich are “better” than them, and success has been achieved more easily and with the help of special qualities. But this is not so. Most often, major success is the result of labor and a successful combination of circumstances.
The lucky ones managed to navigate in the situation in which they were, and the consequences were successful. And others just stubbornly pursued the intended goal, and so they got rich.
But every person is capable of it. It will be easier for someone, someone more difficult, but we already have all the necessary internal resources and will not disappear anywhere.
5. Come up with excuses
Perhaps one of the worst habits is to constantly seek excuses. They will be found for all occasions: being late, poverty, rudeness. It does not matter who is to blame for the fact that you are in such a situation - a state, a neighbor or a colleague.
No explanation will change reality. The main thing is that this is the case. What you do to make a difference matters. Therefore, do not waste time looking for excuses; better figure out what to do about it.
4. Loyal to tradition
Yes, traditions are different. Some of them are innocent or even useful, such as a family dinner at the same table. But nevertheless, traditions are simply behavior fixed by people.
If, for example, in a family in each new generation, people choose the same profession, not allowing themselves to think that there are other options, this significantly reduces their capabilities. If people, following tradition, do not change their place of residence, so too.
In fact, when you abandon traditions, you will not lose anything. Therefore, sometimes it is worth being bolder and removing from life what is not needed or interferes.
3. Feel guilty
A constant sense of guilt fetters a person and undermines self-esteem. He believes that he deserves punishment, and does not allow success to enter his life. After all, in his opinion, he is not worthy of the good, as long as he is guilty of something. But this is a delusion that makes a person vulnerable and easily manageable.
The level of income and wine are not related. Do not interfere with this feeling in work. Even the richest people remain people like us. Anyone who works deserves success.
2. It cares what others think
Dependence on other people's opinions makes it difficult to live their own lives. Dependents are afraid to make a decision without the participation of outsiders, sacrifice their interests in fear of becoming outcasts.
People will always think something. But everyone is primarily concerned about his own life. People around you do not know you as a person, so their opinion is not directly related to you.
We all lived in different conditions, each with our own feelings and desires. Do not waste time redoing yourself for each interlocutor, most of all do not care about you.
1. The obsessive influence of loved ones
This is the same problem as the previous one, but it affects people even more, since loved ones do not come and go, their opinion is authoritative. But still, this is also just a personal opinion. The loved ones had a different life, and they adapted in their own way.
If you feel that the advice of family or friends is not suitable for you, do not follow them. And even more so if these recommendations made them themselves unhappy.